Vincent Aluu, a Nigerian father of three, has courageously shared the story of the most challenging period in his life, marked by severe financial hardship and emotional strain. In 2017, while enrolled in his MSc program, Vincent found himself unable to provide basic necessities for his family, including food and school fees for his children.
During this difficult time, Vincent was forced to leave his car unused for nearly ten months because he couldn’t afford fuel or maintenance costs. To survive, he had to sell some of his assets. He vividly remembers walking long distances, such as the trek from Udo Udoma Avenue to the University of Uyo on Ikpa Road, to save money for his wife’s meals and their newborn’s nutrition.
He recounted how, when friends offered him snacks, he would politely ask for cash instead, so he could bring food home for his children. Okro soup became a frequent meal in their household. His second son, now seven years old, developed the habit of sucking his fingers to ease hunger pangs-a behavior that lasted until recently.
Vincent also described the exhausting journeys he made between Ewet Housing and Shelter Afrique to attend appointments, many of which yielded no results. He reflected on how people often don’t realize the extent of others’ struggles because hardships are not always visible. Due to financial constraints, he had to withdraw his children from Kings and Queens School in Ewet Housing after just one term and later enrolled them in a more affordable school.
Despite these setbacks, Vincent’s story took a hopeful turn thanks to the support of compassionate individuals like Representative Unyime Idem, who extended a helping hand that rekindled his optimism. He expressed deep gratitude to his wife, who stood steadfastly by his side throughout the ordeal, managing their finances while he focused on rebuilding their future.
Vincent also acknowledged the encouragement and assistance from close friends, associates, and his in-laws, though he noted that some people chose to ignore his plight. His message to anyone facing adversity is one of resilience and perseverance. Quoting Aniekeme Finbarr, he urged others to “DO IT, DARW IT,” inspiring those on the brink of giving up to keep pushing forward.
Today, Vincent’s circumstances have transformed dramatically, and he hopes his experience serves as a beacon of hope for others enduring tough times.
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