- A Nigerian man, Chibuzor Onwurah, shared a touching story about how his father taught him a lesson on alcohol before he left for university.
- His dad poured him a glass of beer, encouraged him to try it at home if he ever wanted to drink, and emphasized moderation.
- Chibuzor said the experience helped him realize he didn’t like alcohol and never felt pressured to drink or smoke in school.
A Nigerian man, Chibuzor Onwurah, has shared an important life lesson his father taught him about alcohol before he left for university.
According to Chibuzor, his father once poured a bottle of Star beer into two glasses and asked him to take a sip. Finding it bitter, he made a face, which made his father laugh and say:
“Nothing special to it. If you ever want to drink, do it at home where you’re safe, and just one bottle, occasionally.”
Chibuzor revealed that the experience made him realize he didn’t like the taste of alcohol. By the time he got to school, he never felt pressured to drink or smoke because his father had already taught him it wasn’t a big deal.
He concluded by highlighting that good parenting is not about control but trust, saying:
“Good parenting isn’t about control. It’s about trust, teaching limits, and creating a safe space for your kids to learn and grow.”
In other news…. Nigerian rapper Emeka Akumefule, widely known as Blaqbonez, has expressed that he is open to the idea of an open marriage.
In a recent appearance on the In My Opinion podcast, Blaqbonez discussed how intimacy in marriages can decline over time, often due to a lack of sexual exploration beyond the relationship.
He stated that it can be acceptable for a married individual to be intimate with someone else if their spouse is unavailable.
However, he emphasized that having an extramarital relationship should never replace the role of a spouse in a marriage.
He said, “I don’t mind having an open marriage. Most married couples, you don’t keep having same amount of sex you were having at the beginning. It will reduce.
“If somebody is satisfying her sexually while I’m hustling, touring, I’m not available to be getting intimate with her all the time. That is okay. There’s more to marriage than sex. I don’t mind that you’re sleeping with someone else provided you’re dedicated to me.
“It will be difficult for a random person to just come and match up with what I have put in there. Nobody is just going to get her sexually and also mentally addicted to them. They probably can’t make her laugh the way I do. If I’m even going to get married, I need two rooms. Me and my wife will only meet when we want to have intimacy.”
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